When it's more than just the "baby blues"
Though having a new baby is often a joyous occasion, it’s also a massive life transition that can bring about stress, uncertainty, and most of all, lack of sleep. It’s not surprising that new parents often feel like they’re experiencing the highest highs and the lowest lows after coming home from the hospital with their newborn.
While some of this is normal and expected as a result of hormone changes and an adjustment period — you may have heard this called the “baby blues” — it can sometimes point to a more serious mental health concern, like postpartum depression. When feelings of sadness, irritability, anxiety, and exhaustion continue for more than several weeks or months after birth (or if the feelings interfere with the parents’ normal abilities to cope, function, or parent their newborn), it’s likely developed into postpartum depression or a more general perinatal mood and anxiety disorder (PMAD).
What is a perinatal or postpartum mood and anxiety disorder?
You’ve probably heard of postpartum depression and anxiety, but the term has changed recently to acknowledge that these mental health struggles can develop at any point during pregnancy and up to one year after having a baby. Types of PMADs include depression, anxiety, obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), panic disorder, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), and psychosis (a serious emergency).
PMADs affect at least 20 percent of all birthing people, making it the top complication of pregnancy and childbirth. Non-birthing people (including fathers, partners and adoptive parents) aren’t immune either. According to a recent study in the American Journal of Men’s Health, up to 9 percent of new fathers can experience postpartum depression. And, if one parent develops a PMAD, the other is more at-risk for developing one as well.
Luckily, perinatal mood and anxiety disorders are very treatable with any combination of talk therapy, medication, self-help techniques, support groups, and, if necessary, temporary hospitalization.
As with any mental health condition, PMADs are not the fault of the individual and are a medical issue just like any other physical ailment. PMADs are caused by chemical changes in the brain brought on by a major life event. They are also associated with several different risk factors — including a lack of social support, financial stress, personal history with mental health conditions, and other sudden life changes, to name a few.
What does a perinatal mood and anxiety disorder look like?
PMAD symptoms can vary and range from mild to severe. Symptoms can include:
- Feeling depressed
- Severe mood swings
- Excessive crying
- Withdrawing from family and friends
- Extreme fatigue or loss of energy
- Insomnia
- Intense irritability and anger
- Severe anxiety and panic attacks
- Intrusive thoughts that are highly disruptive
- Feeling worthless or inadequate
- Thoughts of self-harm or harming your baby
Though these symptoms are similar to the “baby blues” at first, they last much longer than a few weeks after childbirth and can interfere with bonding and caring for your newborn.
More about postpartum psychosis
Postpartum psychosis is a rare PMAD normally develops within a week of childbirth and is a life-threatening emergency that needs immediate treatment. According to the Mayo Clinic, signs of postpartum psychosis include confusion and disorientation, hallucinations, delusions, paranoia, excessive energy and agitation, obsessive thoughts about your baby, severe sleep disturbances, and attempts to harm yourself or your baby.
Do you suffer from a perinatal mood and anxiety disorder?
If you have been struggling, you're not alone. Being diagnosed with a PMAD has zero reflection on you and your ability to parent; rather, it more accurately reflects the struggles most new parents face that aren't openly acknowledged or talked about.
Just as you would seek care for any other disease, it is just as critical to seek care for mental health issues, as well. Getting and receiving this care will not only help you be able to be your best, but it will also help you care for your other family members.
If you recognize any of the symptoms above, reach out to your OB/GYN, midwife, other health care provider you saw during pregnancy, or even your primary care provider (PCP). They'll help you determine the next steps for treating your PMAD, whether that's medication, talk therapy, support groups, or a combination of those.
Don't be afraid to tell your loved ones that you're experiencing PMAD symptoms, either. Oftentimes, extra support from friends and family members can help lessen the severity of what you're dealing with. Accepting help can make a difference — whether its someone offering to cook a hot meal or hold the baby while you sleep, shower, or do other self-care tasks.
Caring for yourself during pregnancy and postpartum
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- The free Pregnancy Support Program through myWellmark® is available when you need it (day or night) and includes optional access to personalized support from a case management nurse. It also includes the WebMD® Pregnancy Assistant, Count the Kicks® app, and more.
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